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WE Are Not Pregnant

7/17/2014

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One day I suggested to my husband that “maybe it would be okay if we tried.” I could have been talking about sushi, or skydiving, or lunar travel.  Something safe and final.  But the man’s face lit up with unambiguous joy.

I use the word “we” lightly here, because let’s face it, my husband and I were not, and would never be, pregnant.  I would be pregnant.  I would be sick on the couch, eating saltines, staring at a cursor blinking on an unfinished scene of my unfinished novel.  The flu, I told my students, hives, pneumonia—anything to keep my condition secret until it appeared the condition would stick.  I was the one subject to the probing hands of doctors, to needle pricks, and bloodletting.  I was the one banned from alcohol, coffee, cold cuts, hot tubs, and yes, sushi, skydiving and lunar travel. 

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